I saw a story this morning on GMA about a second grade boy in Colorado, whose behavior was so violent, the police had to be called. He had been spitting, throwing chairs, and swearing. He told his teachers that he was going to kill them and was holding a sharp knife-like piece of wood. His reaction towards the police was the same at which point they decided to use pepper spray on the child. When his mother arrived she was horrified that her son had been treated this way, and filed a complaint against the police department. The reaction to this story had been overwhelming. Many are choosing sides as to who is wrong or right. I think the situation is a little more complex than that.
He is in a class for children with behavioral issues. His mother claims he only has problems at school. Elizabeth Vargas, who has small children herself, tried to get this child to admit that his behavior was out of control. He held back a bit and seemed like he really didn’t understand why it was so bad. His mother feels excessive force was used. Not being in the situation at the time we can only speculate what occurred. But, the school has a commitment to provide a safe environment for all. This is where we run into problems.
There are many kids who cause disruptions in the classroom. The attention all seems to focus on those one or two individuals and not on the climate of the entire room. Where do the rights of the kids who behave come in? How can a teacher be responsible for the learning and safety of all when these situations arise? I find it interesting that these are the issues that create the most action by parents. Right away they are in the office. Right away they are seeking lawyers. They don’t see that there is a much bigger problem in front of their eyes.
This little boy is a ticking time bomb. It will only be a matter of time before he hurts himself or others. The focus should be on getting him the right kind of help he needs while he is still young. There is something bothering him. He seems to be deeply troubled. This isn’t about the police, the school, or the teachers. The story has created much publicity, but I feel those closest to him need to put their energy into the child and let the other concerns rest. I wish him well.
Simple Sensibilities 